Mistakes To Avoid When Chasing Your Boyfirend

Have you ever meet a man, you want to make him pay more attention to you so that it can possibly lead to something more?

Many ladies accidentally push men away when they’re attempting to pull them in closer and they don’t even realize they’re doing it.

In fact, if a man isn’t attracted to you, all of your attempts to connect with him more or less will actually backfire, and make it less likely that he’ll want to be with you.

Stop Using Attraction Strategies that mistakes

Some techniques that you may be using that are more likely to push a man away than make him more attracted to you. Quickly scan the Mistakes that you did. And then You will be able to correct any mistakes you might make.

The first attraction Mistake that is "The Super Nice Girl"

When you’re trying to make friends with someone new, an effective strategy is to be sweet, nice and kind. And it would make sense that if you want a guy to be attracted to you that you might want to use a similar strategy… maybe even taking it up a notch.

This might look like buying a man a gift, doing something for him, giving him a lot of compliments, or trying to help him with his life’s problems. If you act this way towards a man before you’ve created attraction with him, you’re more likely to make him want to distance himself from you than you are to get him to like you more.

This can only work once you’re already in a relationship with a guy… if it’s toned down a bit. Before that, it just comes off as too much too soon.

The second Mistake that is the "Friend with benefits"

This is attempting to make a guy like you more by seducing him and giving him sex. Statistics have shown that taking a “friend with benefits” type relationship and turning it into a commitment works less than 1 out of 9 times.

While being with a man sexually may make YOU feel closer and more connected to him, men can be in a casual relationship with a woman for years and never feel like she’s anything more to him than a sexual partner.

The last Mistake that is "The confession"

The confession is when you tell a man how you feel about him in an attempt to get him to see how wonderful the two of you could be together. What you may not know is that, to a man, when you confess your feelings for him like this, he feels like you’re beginning to pursue him.

 And while he might be flattered by your interest, when he feels like you’re starting to pursue him, he’ll feel like you’re coming on too strong and completely lose any interest in pursuing you. If a man doesn’t pursue you, he won’t feel invested in your potential relationship enough to ever commit to you.

These three Mistakes will make you come across as “needy” to a man, even if you don’t feel that way.